Erotic parties and swingers clubs: A Journey of Curiosity

Hey! I thought I'd take our loyal readers on a journey that once began in beautiful Trancoso, Brazil, during a yoga retreat in 2019. There, I met two women who radiated like collapsed German ladies, but boy, what a deception that was! They turned out to be seasoned swingers. And so began my adventure into the world of sex clubs, a world I never expected to enter, but which has enriched my life in so many ways.

First step: Spain

My first experience was in a Spanish sex club. While my new girlfriends changed into latex suits, I remained seated in my (rather “vanilla”) dress at the bar, sipping gin tonics. The club had a warm, cosy atmosphere, and despite sitting alone, I felt at ease. The air was filled with a mix of perfume and excitement.

After a few drinks, I felt braver and decided to kiss a flirtatious couple next to me. It was a playful, exciting experience. Then I walked through different rooms, each with their own unique energy. In a BDSM room, I was invited by an older lady dressed in a kinky outfit to beat her partner with a whip. The sensation of freedom and exploration was overwhelming. Each room felt like a new universe of human sensuality.

Further Discoveries

During one of my visits, I met a charming man, and together we explored the club. At one point, we found ourselves in the middle of a gangbang of posh Brits, all dressed in Victorian style.

What made these experiences so special was the freedom to express myself and explore boundaries. I learned that every sex club has its own unique atmosphere, and that the crowd plays a big role in how you live the experience. Some clubs felt warm and inviting, while others were less appealing. It was a self-discovery, in which I learnt to be myself and explore my own comfort zone.

What I learned:

Communication is key - Playfully and light-heartedly discuss your limits and desires in advance. This ensures a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone, without being a buzzkill becomes. I have learnt that open communication not only provides safety, but also increases excitement and confidence because you then feel all the more understood and therefore safer.

Safety first - Never let a brief moment of excitement come at the expense of (protecting) your health. A short-term decision with a long-term aftermath is the last thing you want.

Just be yourself, that's what everyone else is - Sex clubs are places for self-expression and fun. It is a space to be yourself and explore who you are and what you want, together with others who put themselves in situations as vulnerable as you are. Use that opportunity to be completely yourself without (pre)judgement.

One erotic club/party is not the other - They all have their own atmosphere and character. Some clubs feel warm and inviting, while others might be more straightforward or even a touch “dark”. It is important to explore different clubs and find what suits you.

The atmosphere is set by the audience - The experience in a sex club can vary greatly depending on who is present. Sometimes the atmosphere is a perfect symbiosis of all those present, other times less you see more loose groups. It's all part of the adventure and discovery.

Conclusion

My journey through the world of sex clubs has taught me a lot about myself and others. It was a journey from curiosity to experience, from insecurity to self-confidence. I learnt not only to accept and appreciate myself, but most importantly to embrace the diversity and beauty of human sensuality. It was a journey I never expected, but for which I will be eternally grateful, and which my role as a high class escort has made it all the more successful. We offer not only companionship, but also a safe space for exploration and self-discovery. It is therefore a privilege to be part of this world and to help people explore their own boundaries, and sometimes even stretch them a little here and there...